Welcome to our journey in adoption! We are very excited to be called on this amazing journey. We know God is bigger than any problems we will encounter along the way and that he has gone before us and paved the way to our "Baby Dash"!

So please join with us on our journey! Check the blog often and please please keep us in your prayers. Pray for our little one wherever they might be, and remember his/her biological mother and the decisions that she will or might already be having to make for this precious baby!

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Progressing

I'm doing my best to keep myself so distracted that I can't focus on the real things in life - like waiting. I am a very goal oriented person. Goals work for me and completing tasks makes me a happy person to live with. The best advice I have gotten to endure this final phase of the wait is "to distract yourself". So this is me distracting myself :) I came up with a list of 13 distractions (or goals).

I figured I had 11 spots to get through and this was the only way I would be able to endure another 11 spots of waiting. Well, I happy to report that not only am I working through this list of sanity keepers, but I also at least #10 :)

I am so happy for the Brown family who received a referral for a 6 week old baby boy!!!

Okay so onward with the goals. So I created this list on Saturday so I think I'm doing pretty good considering I have a job that drags me out of bed at 4:30 in the morning:


#1) Clean our spare bedroom so I have room to complete future tasks

Okay, a disclaimer on this one. This room is normally not this messy. It was just a combination of moving all of my scrapbook stuff from what used to be the scrapbook room (now the nursery) into this room. Plus my niece's stayed over and destroyed the room, plus we got a king size bed and had to find a place to store the queen until we could move it. So this is what we were dealing with:

This was the very first task on my list for a reason. Whew, glad that one is behind me!!!
2) Catch up scrapbooking
I have gotten my table set up and I am actually only a few months behind on this one so it shouldn't take me long once I have the motivation to get moving. Seriously, you have to be in the right mood to scrapbook - I'll get there!
3) Start Dash's Baby Scrapbook
I don't know why this one seems so daunting to me. I just want it to be perfect so I am almost afraid to start on it. Since I don't get to share in pregnancy with Dash, I really want to capture as much of the adoption process in his scrapbook. I think I will still hold off on starting this one until I get caught up on the family scrapbook. Maybe that will give me inspiration!
4) Baby proof all rooms in our house (one room a week) which includes:
Downstairs Bathroom/Laundry Room
Living Room
Formal Dining Room
Kitchen
Family Room
Stairway/Hallway's
Master Bedroom
Master Bathroom
Mickey Bathroom
Nursery
Spare Bedroom
Haven't done this one yet. Some rooms should be really easy, but some of the rooms I want to rearrange things (like books on bookshelves, movies under the tv) so that we really ARE ready for Dash's little curious hands on everything :) Hoping to conquer one of these rooms next weekend!
5) Finish Nursery
Uh, nope. Really all that is left is installing a dimmer switch, buying blinds for his window, and a tad bit more decorating. We're close!!!
6) Lost 7 more lbs (workout, workout, workout)
Yeah, working on it. It's gonna take some time :)
7) Finish reading Adopted for Life
I love this book so I don't know why we've had such a difficult time getting through it. 3 more chapters to go!
8) Finish reading Clear and Present Danger
I am a big Tom Clancy fan (actually a BIG Harrison Ford fan, aka Jack Ryan - Tom Clancy novel you get the picture). I have read all of the Jack Ryan books but since Peter isn't much of a reader but likes to be read to - I am not going through the series reading to him. It is time consuming but good times. I would say we're about 1/4 of the way through the book. This one is going to take a bit longer!!!
9) Try out 10 new recipes
I really do enjoy cooking so I have been looking forward to this one and have been scouting out new recipes. This is SUCH a simple recipe but oh so good! I love sweet and sour chicken, but all the recipe's I have found are complicated and just have too many steps that I don't want to bother with. Well, one of my co-workers makes sweet and sour chicken using this recipe and it is very tasty (with no bones, which I love) and simple
Sweet and Sour Chicken

4 boneless skinless chicken breasts
Batter:
2 eggs beaten
1 cup corn starch
salt, pepper, garlic powder to taste
Sweet and Sour Sauce:
1/4 cup white vinegar
1/4 cup chicken stock (I just used water)
1/2 cup sugar
3 tbsp's ketchup
1 tbsp soy sauce
Mix the batter ingredients together. Add a little water to thin out the batter. Cut up thawed chicken breasts into smaller pieces.
Dip chicken in batter then place in skillet on medium heat to brown. Turn chicken and brown on other side:
Place in baking dish and pour sweet and sour sauce over chicken. Place in 35o degree oven for 20 minutes then turn and cook another 15-25 minutes (depends on size of chicken pieces).

Simple and tender sweet and sour chicken!


I also used the leftover chicken the next night in Fried Rice. I fried rice with cut up chicken, peas, and egg and it was also really tasty!!!
I have a special (and also intimidating) recipe surprise for this coming weekend that I'm going to try :)

10) Stock the freezer with freezer meals (goal is 2 full day cooking sessions by time of travel which would total over 75 meals in freezer!)
I am working on my next 8 hour cooking session. If you've never experienced 30 day meals, I highly recommend checking them out. There are tons of different options of meals and it is so nice to be able to just pull something out of the freezer and bake it and dinner is ready to go! Well worth the effort for one day (plus it is cost saving since you are buying in bulk!)
11) Get back into piano playing (goal of refreshing at least through 2 more levels)
I recently have picked back up piano playing after a 12 year hiatus. I definitely need to brush up, but it is something that I do enjoy and need to work on it before my hands are full :)
12) Get dogs on track with obedience
Haven't really tried this one, but need to soon
13) Start budgeting in categories what we will actually be allotted to spend after Dash arrives and I stop working
We're working on this one. We will see how we actually do at the end of the month. So far, I think we're doing good!
There's my goals. I've gotten a good start in the past 3 days I think. I am hoping to see numbers continue to drop at a steady rate! It is getting exciting :) There are only a few families in front of us left that I know, then I'm on my own :)

Hoping the Peltz family gets their call soon! I like the #10, but I have to admit that officially being in single digits would be awful nice :)

Monday, February 8, 2010

Ways to Help

I wanted to post some newer ministry's that I have come across and want to share to you. I know there are many different places where you can give your money and it is a very personal decision on where to give your money, but I wanted to give you some awareness of other ministries that could really use our support. It seems like there is never an end to to "the need" and really, there probably never will be but if you feel led please check these places out:



This is the story of an amazing young woman who is 21 years old and is sacrificially serving God in Uganda right now. Her stories of reality will bring you to tears. She is a living example that we all could learn something from. Like I said she is 21 years old and has adopted 14 Ugandan girls! That is a ministry in itself, but it doesn't stop there. She is constantly serving the poor, the orphaned, and the widowed. Read her stories, I promise that your life will changed through her stories.

Her ministry is called Amazima


Through her ministry you can sponsor a child for $300 a year which provides schooling, uniforms, 2 hot meals a day, school supplies, and minor medical care.

They also do a chicken ministry:
Each family in the Amazima program will be given a hen. These
hens will lay eggs that the families can sell or choose to hatch.
They can then sell the chickens or choose to eat them. The
families must give their first full grown chicken to a neighbor in
the village who has not received a chicken, thus paying back their
loan. As long as these chickens are cared for they will provide an
opportunity for these families to self-sustain, and depend less on
the ministry for provision
.

A community Garden Program:
In 2010, Amazima plans to buy a plot of land for a community garden. This will provide the sponsored children and their parents an opportunity to interact and work together with one
another. This garden will also provide a way that food can be shared with the less fortunate in
the community.

A Medical Center
As little as $5.00 can provide a child with life saving medication. In the villages Amazima
serves, there is little or no adequate health care. Children are dying of easily treatable and
preventable illnesses. While Amazima continues to teach the adults in the community basic
health care, hygiene and disease prevention, hoping to one day not be needed, children
continue to fall sick. Help Amazima save a life!!

Feeding Ministry
A child can be provided a healthy meal for as little as 15 cents! Amazima feeds 1,200 children
in the Masese feeding program, which provides children from a slum community with meals at
school as an alternative to begging for food on the streets. Fifteen dollars provides 100 meals
for these children. A week's worth of meals is provided for $2.10 (children are served lunch and
given food to take home for supper). Feed a child today!!


If you feel led to help in this amazing ministry go to their website and fill out the sponsorship form. In the very least check out her blog and listen to what God is asking you to do in your life!

The second ministry I want to bring attention to is called Drawn From Water. This is a ministry that drives around in Ethiopia and literally saves children from drowning. In remote villages in Ethiopia, the people believe that any child born who is "different" has an evil spirit and they bind them up and drowned them. It is a sad, sad situation. Literally children are dying because they get their bottom teeth before their top teeth, or if they are born out of wedlock.

This is a post that the leader of Drawn from Water put up today:

"Sort of mixed news today… We were able to save one little two year old boy today named Labuko! And although we could not be more excited to be bringing him into the home we were very sad to learn that a few more did not make it. We were apparently a day late for at least two others, it was unclear if there were any more than two, but there are two we know of for sure who were killed. There are just not words to describe how sad this is.

Today however we are choosing to focus on the one that God has brought into our arms, we are thankful for this precious life, and are going to be just that much more determined to get out there faster next time.

Please pray for the families who lost children this past week. We were not able to find out exactly what happened but we know that there are some terribly sad families today, families who will never forget the children that they had to give up. Indescribable, the pain they must be feeling…"


I truly cannot find the words to describe how awful this is and how terrible it must be for the children's parents. This ministry is relatively new and needs so much help. Please consider what you can do to help save children's lives!!!


They are currently looking for sponsors at $25 a month. Your money does this:


  • Electricity —————————————————-$25 Per month
  • Water ———————————————————$25 Per month
  • Food/per child ———————————————–$57 Per month
  • Nanny 1 ——————————————————-$80 Per month
  • Nanny 2 ——————————————————-$80 Per month
  • Cook ———————————————————–$75 Per month
  • Rent ———————————————————–$270 Per month
  • Pick up a new child from tribe – Car / Driver————–$500 each trip

That's all I have for you today. Pray and follow God's leading :)

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Ready for the Week!

We've had a really nice weekend and I am looking forward to the week ahead. I am not a huge fan of the work week, but since referrals can only go out on work days - I do have my reasons to look forward to the work week :)


We had a very low key, relaxing weekend. We are trying to distract ourselves from this last portion of the wait and have given ourselves a list of tasks to hopefully complete by referral day and goal setting is always popular in my book! I have given myself such a large list of goals that it is actually doing a great job of keeping me busy and distracted.

One area in which we are focusing is cutting our budget down to a realistic post adoption number. So we are cutting down on entertainment, gas money, and eating out. This means more time spent at home over the weekend and less driving to fun places and also means I need to cook more. I actually do enjoy cooking, but after a long day at work it is hard to muster up the energy to cook a nice meal. I have found the secret behind Freezer Meals though and that has been a great help! We are actually planning and preparing our next 8 hour cooking session so that we can get that freezer stocked back up before our little guy comes home.

We are usually so busy over the weekends running around that we don't spend any time at home just relaxing or getting this accomplished and fortunately over this weekend we were able to get a lot of things done AND relax. I feel great going in to the work week!

That's pretty much all I have to say. I am STILL hoping to see lots of wait list movement in the coming week :) Only time will tell...........

Friday, February 5, 2010

February Numbers

Well we got our new numbers today. I was happy to see more movement than we've had in any prior months but was honestly hoping we were further along than we are. Oh well, it will someday. I don't want to overlook the fact that there was GOOD movement this month!



Our new numbers are:

Girl: We moved 5 spots this month!




Siblings: We finally moved 2 spots!


(In honor of this movement I give you some awesome Ethiopian colors :)

Boy: Now has taken the lead with 5 spots of movement this month!

This picture made me think of a song on the radio I hear and how fitting it is for us right now. The song says:

"There's a light at the end of this tunnel" and there is a light at the end of this tunnel and I just have to remember that. It was hard to swallow that February probably won't be our referral month either, but we are close and I just hope I have seen my baby's face before my birthday (March 19th) That is all I am asking for right now.

A bloggie friend reminded me of this verse today:

"But these things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, be patient! For it will surely take place. It will not be late by a single day." Habakkuk 2:3

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Just one of those days

We all have them and today was one of mine. I just love this blogging community because I am able to know that I am not crazy and that everyone has days like I am having. Today is one of those days when waiting feels like torture. Waiting is never fun, but there are days where the wait feels bearable.


Today I am tired and frustrated with the wait. I try to be patient but I think if I go so many days without any news or movement then I get frustrated.

I know, I know, I know - God's timing is perfect. Trust me, I completely understand that God's plan IS perfect and that we will get our child in his perfect timing but I just want to know our baby is safe and being cared for and I won't know that until after we get our referral.

It is hard to continue to wait when you know your agency has room for more kids. I don't understand why it takes months to fill that place back up! But I am assuming that our agency is doing everything in their power to get kids in there and I have to try to keep the faith and trust that.

It is hard to have no idea how much longer we're going to be waiting. It could be just another week or two or it could still be months. Ugh, being pregnant would be so much easier!!! At least then I would have a due date to go off of!

Sorry to be such a downer today. I know God is with us and I know He will bring our son to us. Today my heart literally hurts and my stomach is upset with wonder about our son. I just want to know who he is and my patience is really is lacking right now. Who knew waiting could be so heartbreaking!!!

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day. It seems like I am in a constant battle between peace and struggling for patience. The 2 definitely go hand in hand. I can turn instantly from a state of total peace to total lack of patience. That just goes to show that I still have so much to learn :)

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

100th

Today I hit my 100th post on this blog. Wow, who knew I had so much to say :) What a journey we have been on through these first 100 posts!


I think back to when we were creating this blog in early July. This adoption was our little secret and we were having fun preparing for our big reveal. The amazing thing I didn't realize at the time was just how many people I would meet in blogland that would be such a great support to us as we go through this process!!!


Our very first blog post was about the application process and it was posted on the 17th of July, the day we met with Erin at AGCI and turned in our application. We still didn't know for sure whether or not we would be approved, but we hoped and were so excited to start the process to our baby! Even though we intended on not telling anyone until after we were accepted into the program (on the 22nd) we couldn't wait any longer and we told our families our big news the next day and the rest of the world on the 19th.

On July 22nd, Peter got the best birthday gift ever - we were officially accepted into AGCI's program and we were REALLY going to be parents :)

Great things started happening and we went from having no money to adopt to somehow, in an amazing way having the first 10 grand in one week!!! We got the last bit of money together on our 3rd wedding anniversary on July 29th and that was just even more confirmation that God had set our course and He was with us on this journey!!!

And so began the paperchase on August 4th. We fundraised like CRAZY and just hit the paperwork as hard as we could. In a matter of 3 weeks all the paperwork was ready to go, but unfortunately with all the good time's came some yucky times too. On September 23rd, while we were away on vacation with no possible way to complete the task, I found out my fingerprints had been rejected by our state. It was so frustrating as we were set and ready to go. I was pretty upset and angry about that. We had to endure another month long delay but we got an awesome social worker for our home study who made up a lot of the time we'd lost. In a matter of about a week we'd had all of our home study visits AND she'd written the report.

I have shared before about all the miracles that happened to get us on the wait list when we did and on October 30th we were wait listed. What a great day! Seriously, one of the highlights of the year!!! So much sweat and tears put into one stack of very important paperwork!

From there it has just been a waiting game! We've come so far in these first 100 posts and I am so excited to see what happens in the NEXT 100 posts! I just know we will have a little guy in our arms by our 200th post and our lives are going to change so much in the next 100 posts!!! The best, most exciting days of our lives are right in front of us. I can't wait to get the call. I can't wait to see his face. I can't wait to pass court. And I (of course) can't wait to get him in my arms and bring him home and settle into life with him as our son!!!

So thanks for being here with me on this journey! Thanks for listening to my exciting highs and difficult lows and the sometimes boring posts in between. I appreciate each and every person who reads this blog so I am challenging you lurkers to delurk. Please tell me who you are and something about you. I would greatly appreciate it if you would do that for me. After all, it is my 100th post :)

Monday, February 1, 2010

A letter to my boy

To my Baby Dash,


I have been thinking a lot about you lately. Even more than before and THAT is a lot. I know that there are some unfair things going on in your life right now and that makes me sad. I wish you didn't have to go through any of this but I am grateful that we are going to get the opportunity to be your parents.

I find it hard to make it through my day without getting emotional for you. We don't yet know the circumstance's or the why to your story but I know this is a difficult decision for anyone to make. I feel so bad for what you are going through. I know you will probably not remember any of it, but that doesn't make it any easier.

I hope and pray that you are safe and healthy right now. I worry that you are hungry and crying. I worry that you could be in an unsafe place, but I trust that God is taking good care of you. Your journey to us is nothing short of a miracle.

I imagine while we are home preparing your room and doing all this paperwork you are on quite the journey yourself. You could be hundreds of miles away from the place we will someday meet. You could still be with your birth family or maybe you are in another home before traveling to Hannah's Hope but I hope you can understand just how much of a miracle it is that you and us will become a family in God's perfect time and plan!

I know as you are carried through the gates of Hannah's Hope, it will be a scary time of adjustment for you. As you leave behind the familiar, it is just another step in your journey to us! I just hope you know that your special mommy's love you dearly and you will be safe, warm, and fed while in their care. Be especially sweet and be sure to smile for Almaz, she is an amazing woman! They will take lots of pictures of you so be sure to "ham" it up for the camera as these will be the pictures we stare at for months! We promise to constantly stare at your picture until we are able to come and take you home!!! You have a whole lot of people looking forward to meeting you and they are praying for you and your journey right now! You have a big, crazy family - grandparents, great-grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, the list goes on and on who can't wait to meet you. I hope they don't scare you too much when you meet them!!!

I know as we carry you out of the gates of Hannah's Hope, it will be a scary time of adjustment for you. As you believe behind what has become familiar - it is the final step in the journey to HOME! I know you will have no idea who we are, but I hope you know how dearly we love you!

We look so forward to being your parents! I can't wait to hear your first belly laugh! We can't wait to see what things interest you - will you be in to trains or cars or legos? Will you be a daredevil in Disneyland? Will you be a runner like your daddy? So many exciting things are in front of us and we can't wait to see who you really are and what interests you!

Take care, I love you sooooo much and miss you!

Mommy